"if you're single, the world is your smorgasbord"--sex and the city
hey hey,
check out my BIG in '05 list here! i guess i could post here, but whatever.
so i forgot to mention that i've had this certain blog for a year now, dec 7 was it's birthday. you can read my first entry here. i was so lost and confused, and even though i'm probably confused now, it's a different kind of confusion. lol.
i am having a hard time concentrating today. it is so gloomy outside, that i thought my alarm was being silly again, and for a brief moment i was sure that my whole life was off about 5 hours, it was so weird. also weird? i had a dream about my work friend last night, it wasn't dirty or anything, just weird that i dreamt about him. i guess i'll have to shoot him an email someday...like i told shawna, prob. after new years. anyway, i am much less stressed today, but i wore a turtleneck and i feel really confined...eh...it's kind of strange.
so i have been thinking about this and i think baylor people are kind of retarded. as many of you have noticed, this is the season of engagements (or breakups, whatever), but mostly engagements. on facebook, our good ol' keep in touch icon of 2005, whenever someone gets engaged, they usually post it on their "About me" section. (i don't judge this, i would probably do that too), but it's comments that really get me, a lot of times it's a lot of "well it's about TIME!" or "FINALLY!" ...i'm sorry, i didn't realize there was a TIMELINE which says when a couple had to be engaged and married, is there a race? i think if there is, i'm losing. ok, for me, i think anywhere from 6 months - 1.5 years probably does not deserve the FINALLY comment. it DOES take people awhile to get to know each other and it IS a big commitment...do baylor people think it's like playing house? maybe. ok, but from 2 years and on, it's like, if you've been together that long, where is it going? but even then...it doesn't deserve that comment, i have been in 2 relationships that were 2 years or longer and neither time did i get engaged, does that make me a failure? no. it just means it wasn't right at the time. some people know and some people need time, and my friends, there is no reason for ANYONE other than the people in the relationship to know when they should be taking the next step or not. so stop the peer pressure...seriously. (i think i've been watching too much sex and the city)
ok i feel better. i'm ready for xmas break!!!!!!! and NYE weekend!!
so fun!
peace.
check out my BIG in '05 list here! i guess i could post here, but whatever.
so i forgot to mention that i've had this certain blog for a year now, dec 7 was it's birthday. you can read my first entry here. i was so lost and confused, and even though i'm probably confused now, it's a different kind of confusion. lol.
i am having a hard time concentrating today. it is so gloomy outside, that i thought my alarm was being silly again, and for a brief moment i was sure that my whole life was off about 5 hours, it was so weird. also weird? i had a dream about my work friend last night, it wasn't dirty or anything, just weird that i dreamt about him. i guess i'll have to shoot him an email someday...like i told shawna, prob. after new years. anyway, i am much less stressed today, but i wore a turtleneck and i feel really confined...eh...it's kind of strange.
so i have been thinking about this and i think baylor people are kind of retarded. as many of you have noticed, this is the season of engagements (or breakups, whatever), but mostly engagements. on facebook, our good ol' keep in touch icon of 2005, whenever someone gets engaged, they usually post it on their "About me" section. (i don't judge this, i would probably do that too), but it's comments that really get me, a lot of times it's a lot of "well it's about TIME!" or "FINALLY!" ...i'm sorry, i didn't realize there was a TIMELINE which says when a couple had to be engaged and married, is there a race? i think if there is, i'm losing. ok, for me, i think anywhere from 6 months - 1.5 years probably does not deserve the FINALLY comment. it DOES take people awhile to get to know each other and it IS a big commitment...do baylor people think it's like playing house? maybe. ok, but from 2 years and on, it's like, if you've been together that long, where is it going? but even then...it doesn't deserve that comment, i have been in 2 relationships that were 2 years or longer and neither time did i get engaged, does that make me a failure? no. it just means it wasn't right at the time. some people know and some people need time, and my friends, there is no reason for ANYONE other than the people in the relationship to know when they should be taking the next step or not. so stop the peer pressure...seriously. (i think i've been watching too much sex and the city)
ok i feel better. i'm ready for xmas break!!!!!!! and NYE weekend!!
so fun!
peace.
